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Indeed! Well written, Matt.

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Well said, all of this. It is absolutely shameful that we have to live in fear of daily mass shootings. I didn't leave my house yesterday, other than to enjoy a couple of meals out on my deck. Several friends asked me if I had any "big plans" for the 4th, and my response was basically, "No - just trying to avoid parts of me getting blown off, either via fireworks or firearms." And I was half-joking, at best.

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Hi Matt,

First off, great article. I understand and empathize with your decision to sit out Independence Day this year, especially considering the emotional hangover from the tragic events that occurred during last year's parade in Highland Park, Ill. It is disheartening to witness such senseless acts of violence and the lasting impact they have on individuals and communities.

Your concerns about the potential for violence at large gatherings are sadly justified, given the unfortunate reality of mass shootings in our country. The fear and apprehension that arise from these incidents can undoubtedly overshadow the joy and celebration typically associated with community events. It is a somber reflection of our society when people have to weigh the risks before participating in such gatherings.

The frustration and anger you expressed regarding the inaction on gun violence are shared by many who are deeply concerned about this issue. The repeated cycles of tragedy followed by mere expressions of "thoughts and prayers" from certain political leaders can feel hollow and inadequate. It is understandable that such responses can be perceived as an insult to those who are seeking tangible solutions and meaningful actions to address the root causes of gun violence.

It is important to recognize the distinction between genuine thoughtfulness and heartfelt prayers from those who truly empathize with the victims and their communities, and the empty gestures made by those who fail to take meaningful steps toward preventing future tragedies. Genuine thoughtfulness goes beyond words; it involves active engagement, empathy, and a commitment to fostering change.

Remember that it is okay to take a step back and prioritize your emotional well-being. Engaging in self-care and seeking support from loved ones can provide the strength needed to navigate through challenging times. Together, as a compassionate society, we can strive for a future where such tragedies are minimized, and our communities can heal and thrive.

Wishing you peace and resilience,

Paul

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